We Have To Be Carefully Taught..

As I explored my world in childhood. I routinely shared my experiences with My Mother. On this day she was standing at the kitchen sink washing dishes. It was her style to continue her task. So lessons learned became a part of my everyday life. Did you have lunch at the Smith’s today? My five-year-old mind started searching. How did she know and why? Did you bring other children with you? Yes, to both questions was my reply. The children’s parents called me. They are upset. Over what! What did I do wrong? She never stopped washing the dishes. Conveying to me the unimportance of their phone calls. You must have noticed the Smiths have a different color skin. Yea, so? Some people do not like them because of that. What???? People do not like them because of their skin color. Yes. Now, she turned. She looked straight into my eyes. Continue to play with the Smith children. Go to their home and bring them here for play and meals. Just don’t bring the other children with you. Okay, Mom! I shouted. As I ran off feeling comfortable, secure, and enlightened. That conversation still resonates in my mind, heart and soul. My Mother gave me a great gift that day! The courage and freedom to embrace and respect difference. It is just that simple.

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