Conversations with My Mother

A Lesson In Power and Control.

Growing up I was encouraged to question. I asked My Mother. What is dependency? Dependency is a comfortable trap. That is easily disguised and experienced. A strategy used to maintain power and control. Dependency is designed to meet the needs of the giver and short circuit the power of the receiver. Dependency begins. When a person is raised with only one leg to stand upon. So. They are always off balance. They were never given space to hear their own voice. So. They scream at others to be heard. Dependency is used to establish and maintain power and control over others. It is just that simple.
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